Wonderfully written.

I have a soon-to-be 21-year old. I love her deeply and am incredibly proud of everything she does.

However, I find it weird the way so many people talk about having kids and how they treat parenthood. And how they project this "you'll regret it if you don't" b.s. on others.

I think this attitude, which is often a precursor to other attitudes, is actually damaging to kids.