The Difference Between Leaping Without Looking, Taking Chances And Risk Taking

Making decisions in the second — and final act — of your life

Rocco Pendola
7 min readOct 30, 2024

As you get older, you attach considerably more weight to the decisions you make.

I never thought about this when I was younger.

When I was 19, I had no idea about anything really. Yet, I packed my car and drove from Niagara Falls, New York to Miami, Florida for my first radio job.

I had never been to Miami prior to the job interview. I didn’t take time to consider if I’d like Florida.

I did zero research about the place.

All I knew was that it was hot, humid and a stepping stone to a radio career that — alongside modicums of success — went largely nowhere.

No harm, no foul. Lots of living and learning.

The living and learning hasn’t stopped for more than 30 years, but the way I approach big decisions absolutely has. There’s no way I’m ever going to leap before looking like I did back then. That approach ended in too many failures I no longer have the time for.

Absolutely, I learned from them. But the difference between being 20, 30 or even 40 and — the age I’m on the cusp of — the big five-oh is huge. You have…

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Rocco Pendola
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